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SUPER LOVE FOR SUPER SEX/LOVE-MAP LANDMARKS: ARE YOU “OUTSIDE”- OR “INSIDE”-
DIRECTED?
Psychologists refer to the concept of “locus of control.” Some of us are strongly influenced by our inner feelings and sensations. Others are more reactive to outside cues. Which seems to be your style?
“He doesn’t spend much time with feelings,” reported the wife. “He’s a realist. See it, do it, and that’s it.”
“Yes,” agreed the husband. “And she is all feelings. There is not a bone of practicality in her.”
This “locus of control” issue becomes important in sexual interaction. Some partners respond to sexual stimulation coming from within, from feelings and sensations that seem to originate from the psyche. Others react to visual or touch stimulation almost exclusively, are more haptic, sensation-oriented. How would you characterize yourself and your partner on this branch of the love map, reactive to the outside or active from the inside?
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